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开悟瑜伽士回答：夫妻是前世姻緣吗？【张无极的魔法学院】

来源：爱乐趣网时间：2021年03月27日 16:35

原标题：开悟瑜伽士回答：夫妻是前世姻緣吗？【张无极的魔法学院】

本文转自一个开悟瑜伽士萨古鲁的对话（中英文双语）

Questioner: If there is such thing as previous births, will they be linked with people in the current birth? I am asking this because after my wife did the program with you, she asked me, 'How did I marry you?'

提问者：如果有前世这回事，他们会与这一世的人有关联吗？我之所以问这个，是因为我的妻子在上过你的课程后，问我，“我当初怎么嫁给你了呢？”

Sadhguru: So... 'How did I ever marry you?' I think lot of them are asking that question. So if somebody is asking that question, you must look at yourself, what's happening with you. Somebody is wondering after many years, 'How did I ever marry you', you really need to look at yourself, not previous lives... this life how you are living. So, if any of you, somebody wonders, 'How did I ever marry you,' don't think of previous lives, you have to see how you are living this life. It's very important.

Sadhguru：所以......“我当初怎么嫁给你了呢？”我想很多人都在问这个问题。如果有人问你这个问题，你应当看看你自己，你是怎么了。有人在多年后还在纳闷“我当初怎么会嫁给你”，那么你真的应当看看你自己，不是前世，而是你现在的这一世，你是怎么活着的。所以，如果你们中任何一个人，有人纳闷“我当初怎么嫁给了你”，不要想什么前世，你必须看看你这一世是如何活的，这非常重要。

So... I think this is all Bombay talkies problem. Janam janam mei… (Part of a few Hindi songs meaning many births), whatever. I think in the new movies it's all gone, isn't it? You… you grew up on 70s, 80s movies, so all janam janam business. See all the young people on the new movies, okay? They are no more janam janam business. They are all thinking of relationships, expiry date and…

所以......这是宝莱坞电影看多了的问题，Janam janam mei…（印度歌曲，意指很多次转世）等等。这些在新电影中都已经没有了，不是吗？你们是随着七八十年代电影长大的，所以就有这些Janam janam（多次转世）的问题。多看看新电影里的年轻人，好吗？他们都不说janam janam了，他们都在想着各种关系、关系保鲜期什么的……

So… So if your pursuit for truth is guided by commercial cinema, hmm, then you are asking for trouble, you know. So, if the only way you can hold on to somebody is by believing for many lifetimes we have been stuck together, it's a horrible way to live together. No? 'No, I am with you, because I have been here for many lifetime with you' is a horrible way to be together, isn't it? I am with you now because I want to be with you; this is a beautiful way to be with somebody, isn't it? 'I am with you because you know last three lifetimes…' - don't create such horrors in your life, please. So, you have been together for three lifetimes means it's time to part. No?

所以......如果你对真理的追求是由商业片引导的，嗯......那么，你就是在自找麻烦，你知道的。所以，如果能让你和某人相守终生的唯一方式，是通过相信我们很多世都是在一起的，这是很恐怖的，不是吗？“不，我和你在一起，因为我已经很多世都和你在一起了”，这样在一起是很恐怖的，不是吗？我现在和你在一起，是因为我想要和你在一起，这才是美好的，不是吗？“我和你在一起是因为，你知道过去三世……”请不要在你的生命中制造这样的恐怖。你们已经有三世都在一起了，意味着现在是时候分开了，不是吗？

People keep on coming to me, they put me through these works all the time, 'Sadhguru, was I with you last lifetime?' What ever makes you think if I had seen you in the last lifetime I would ever come in front of you once again? What happened…, I am telling you what happened yesterday is of no consequence. Now you are trying to create a consequence of what happened, might have happened. You do not even know, what might have happened another life. This is like, you know almost everybody talks about their school life or student life like, 'Oh, they were the golden years of my life.' We know what the golden years were. When you were there you were tensed, you were shit scared of your exams, you hated your teachers, and you didn't want to go to school - they were the golden years now because they are over. Because you don't have to go to school anymore, they are golden.

人们总是来问我，他们总是来“考验”我，“萨古鲁，上辈子我是不是和你在一起？”是什么让你觉得，如果我上辈子见过你，我还会想再次来到你面前呢？过去发生的事，我告诉你，昨天发生了什么没有任何意义。现在你试图对过去发生的事制造意义，（还）只是可能发生过的事。你都不知道另一世发生了什么。这就好比你知道几乎每个人在谈论他们的学校生活或学生生活时会说，“噢，那是我生命中的黄金年代。”我们知道那所谓的黄金年代是怎样的，那时候，你很紧张，你对你的考试害怕得要死，你讨厌你的老师，而且你也不想去学校。它们现在成了黄金年代，是因为它们已经结束了。因为你不需要去学校了，所以它们成了黄金。

I think you will feel that way about your marriage also after… If you feel that way after your marriage after it is over, it's no good. If you feel that way when it's on, that's great, isn't it? After it's over you feel, 'Oh, it was so wonderful, but…', you know, that's no good. If you are feeling that way when it's on, that's great. So, don't waste your time digging into the past.

我想，你对你的婚姻也将有如此的感触……（在它结束之后）。如果在你的婚姻结束后，你有那样的感触，这可不好。如果在你的婚姻进行时你有这样的感觉，这才是很棒的，不是吗？在它结束后，你觉得“噢，它曾经多么美妙”，但……你知道的，这不好。如果在婚姻期间，你有如此的感觉，那才是很棒的。所以，不要浪费你的时间去挖掘过去。

I am telling you this damn memory is crippling you. It is not allowing you to use your mind as an instrument of penetration, as an instrument to open up dimensions of life. Now you… you want to pick up the whole backlog that other people have forgotten and that's the only way you can relate to your husband or wife - what a pathetic way to relate to people! Don't do that. See if you can find some value in the human being who is sitting in front of you for what he or she is now; not for what they were somewhere.

我告诉你，这个该死的记忆在让你变得裹足不前，因为它，你没能把头脑作为洞察的工具，作为打开生命维度的工具。现在，你想要将其他人都已经遗忘的过去重新捡起来，这是你能够与你丈夫或妻子连接的唯一方式，这种与人连接的方式是多么可悲！不要这样做。看看你能否从这个正坐在你面前的人身上发现价值，因他/她现在的样子。而不是他们曾在其它地方的样子。

The whole... the whole aspect of modern society today is we don't value you for who your father was, we value you for who you are. Hmm? you are valued for who are, that's significant, isn't it? 'Oh you oh, because oh, whose son are you, whose daughter are you?' That's not important. Unfortunately most people are still living in that. Who you are is important, isn't it? Yes? What you have made out of yourself now is important. Who your father was is not important, that's the big shift we have made from feudalistic way of living to whatever we call as modern society.

当今，现代社会的一个很重要的面向是，我们不因为你的父亲是谁而看重你，我们因为你是谁而珍视你。嗯？你因为你是谁而被重视，这一点意义重大，不是吗？“噢，因为，噢......你是谁的儿子，你是谁的女儿？”这不重要。不幸的是，很多人还活在这里面。你是谁才重要，不是吗？对吗？现在的你是怎样的，才是重要的，你的父亲是谁并不重要，这是我们做的重要转变，从封建性的生活方式转变到我们所说的现代社会。

Little chaotic we are, but it's quite a significant step, isn't it? Isn't it so? It's a quite a significant step that nobody asks me who your father is; they are only looking at who I am. Isn't it a very big step? But if you came here 50 years ago or 100 years ago, nobody would look at your face and ask who you are, they would only ask who your father is. Yes? That's changed, significantly changed. So, what were you in your previous life is worse than asking who your father is. What are you right now, that's what is most important, isn't it? What have you made out of your life right now, that is the most significant thing. So, don't waste your time and life digging into something.

现代社会有些混乱，但这是相当关键的进步，不是吗？不是这样吗？这是相当关键的进步。没有人再问我，你的父亲是谁，他们只是关注我是谁，这不是一个很大的进步吗？但如果你50年或100年前到这来，没有人会看你的脸，问你是谁，他们只会问你的父亲是谁，对吗？这已经改变了，巨大的改变。所以，问你前世是谁，比问你的父亲是谁还要糟糕。你现在是怎样的，这才是最重要的，不是吗？当下你从你的生命中创造了什么，这才是至关重要的事情。所以，请不要浪费你的时间和生命去挖掘过去。