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一个人越来越平庸的三个迹象，你占了几个？

来源：爱乐趣网时间：2021年03月20日 09:25

原标题：一个人越来越平庸的三个迹象，你占了几个？

常言道：“一口吃不成个胖子，一顿饿不成个瘦子。”

As the saying goes, "One bite doesn't make a fat man, and one meal doesn't make a thin man."

同理，一个人也不会突然变的平庸，都是一步步的走向平庸。

Similarly, a person will not suddenly become mediocre, is a step by step towards mediocrity.

但这个过程又不是悄悄的，它早就已经在一些小细节上提醒你了。

But it's not a secret process, it's already reminding you in the small details.

有的人没有注意到这些细节，选择了无动于衷，任由着自己堕落，而有的人幡然醒悟，能够及时止损。

Some people do not notice these details and choose to do nothing and let themselves fall, while others wake up and can stop their losses in time.

一个越来越变得平庸的人，身上通常会有这三个迹象，中一个，你就该给自己敲响警钟了。

There are three common signs that a person is becoming mediocre, and you should be warning yourself of one of these.

沉迷于短期快感

茨威格的《断头王后》中有这样一句话：“她那时还太年轻，不知道命运所赠送的礼物，早已在暗中标好了价格。”

There is a line in Zweig's "The Broken Queen" : "She was too young to know that the gift of fate had already been secretly priced."

世界上没有享受却不用付出的事，每一种能够带给我们快乐的事物，都是需要同等价值的事物去兑换。

There is nothing in the world that we can enjoy without paying. Every thing that can bring us happiness needs to be exchanged for things of equal value.

可能是你的金钱，可能是你的情感，又或许是你的时间。

It could be your money, it could be your emotions, it could be your time.

堂弟有个坏习惯，放学回到家的第一件事就是拿出手机刷起来。

My cousin has a bad habit that the first thing he does when he gets home from school is to take out his mobile phone and brush it.

本来是想随便放松一下，结果在好听的音乐与精致的画面之中，沉迷几个小时，原本的学习计划也泡汤了。

Originally, I wanted to relax casually, but in the beautiful music and exquisite pictures, I indulged myself for several hours, and my original study plan was ruined.

之后就算懊悔、自责，也于事无补，只能洗漱，上床睡觉了。

Then even if regret, remorse, can not help things, can only wash and go to bed.

逐渐的，堂弟欠下的课程越来越多，成绩也一落千丈，与其他同学的距离越来越大，最终高考与理想学校失之交臂。

Gradually, my cousin owed more and more courses and suffered a sharp decline in his grades. As a result, the distance between him and other students became larger and larger. Finally, he failed to pass the college entrance examination and was admitted to his ideal school.

其实网络游戏、电子小说，短视频软件等等都是时间杀手，一不注意半天都过去了，带给人的都是“短期快感”。

In fact, online games, electronic novels, short video software and so on are time killers, one does not pay attention to half a day has passed, bring people are "short-term pleasure".

虽然短暂地带来了快感，但是极易让人丧失自控力。而沉迷其中，不仅伤害身体健康，还消磨意志力，更会让一个人走上下坡路。

While it is momentarily pleasurable, it is very easy to lose control. And indulge in it, not only harm physical health, but also wear down willpower, but also let a person on the downhill slope.

连续过几天这样的生活，即使会感到惬意、快乐，但心里还是会有一种莫名的恐慌。对于能带来短期快感的事物，一定要加强自控力，切不可沉迷其中，否则透支的就是你的未来。

After a few days of such a life, even if it will feel comfortable, happy, but the heart will still have a kind of inexplicable panic. For things that can bring short-term pleasure, you must strengthen your self-control. Do not indulge in them, or you will overdraw your future.

走不出自己的舒适区

Not stepping out of your comfort zone

著名作家马伯庸说过这样一句话：“走出舒适区的目的不是找罪受，而是找到一个你之前从来不知道的更舒适区域。”

Famous writer Ma Boyong once said, "The purpose of getting out of your comfort zone is not to find a pain, but to find a more comfortable zone that you have never known before."

舒适区，其实就是你为自己的人生建的一堵墙，然后就活在这一方天地中，久久不愿离去。但是如果你尝试离去，你就会发现外面还有很广阔的天地。

Your comfort zone is a wall you build for your life, and then you live in it for a long time. But if you try to leave, you will find that there is a lot of space out there.

国内知名的女演员陈数主演的《暗算》《新上海滩》《倾城之恋》等电视剧深受观众的喜爱。

Domestic famous actress Chen starred in the "plot" "New Shanghai" "love" and other TV series by the audience's favorite.

《暗算》剧照而陈数之所以能取得今天的成就，就是因为她是一个不愿意在舒适区停留太久的人。

The reason why Chen got where she is today is because she is not willing to stay in her comfort zone for too long.

二十多岁，她放弃了东方歌舞团的工作，提前9个月就开始努力备考，最终以文化课分数高出录取分数线一百七十分的成绩考入中央戏剧学校表演系。

In her twenties, she gave up her job in the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe and began to prepare for the exam nine months in advance. Finally, she was admitted to the Performing Department of the Central Drama School with a score of 170 points higher than the admission threshold.

后来她更是不甘于坐等机会，意识到自己更适合年代戏后，主动和新上海滩剧组联系面试，经过不懈努力，她又成功进入新上海滩剧组。

Later, she is not willing to wait for the opportunity to realize that they are more suitable for the era of drama, the initiative and the new Shanghai Tang cast contact interview, after unremitting efforts, she successfully entered the new Shanghai Tang cast.

其实她完全可以靠着东方歌舞团这个“铁饭碗”过得很好，但是她偏偏就不。

In fact, she could have lived very well with the "iron rice bowl" of the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, but she did not.

什么样的人活得最漂亮？大抵就是像陈数这样随时淮备重新开始的人，只要认准一件事，就决不妥协。大胆走出舒适区，学着清除自己给自己设定的条条框框，学着尝试一些新的事物，在这个过程中你会发现你收获不一样的力量。

Who lives best? Generally is like Chen Shuai ready to start again at any time, as long as the one thing, will never compromise. Get out of your comfort zone. Learn to clear your mind of what you have set for yourself. Learn to try something new and you will find different strengths in the process.

如果不想自甘平庸，那就请你逼自己走出舒适区。别让你每年增加的只是年龄，更别让你的能力配不上你的野心。

If you don't want to settle for mediocrity, push yourself out of your comfort zone. Don't let yourself grow only older each year, and don't let your abilities fall short of your ambitions.

贪恋表面上的努力

不要假装很努力，因为结果不会陪你演戏，表面上的努力只不过是在糊弄别人，玩弄自己罢了。一个人只要努力了，多多少少都会有收获，而假装努力给别人看，是不会有什么好结果。

Don't pretend to be very hard, because the result will not accompany you to act, the effort on the surface is only to fool others, playing with themselves. As long as a person has worked hard, more or less there will be harvest, and pretend to try to show others, is not what good results.

不仅会让自己心累，甚至会越来越不如现在的自己，这是非常不值得的。最近有一个词很火，叫“气氛组”，有“星巴克气氛组”“考研气氛组”“职场气氛组”等等。

Not only will let their heart tired, and even more and more worse than the present themselves, which is very not worth it. Recently, there is a word very popular, called "atmosphere group", there are "Starbucks atmosphere group", "postgraduate entrance exam atmosphere group", "workplace atmosphere group" and so on.

它们有着不同的含义，但却有一个共同的特点，那就是“气氛组”们都执着于表面上的功夫。“考研气氛组”们每天早早起床去图书馆，然后很晚才回来，好像学习了一整天，其实呢？早上到达图书馆，桌上有本小说，算了看几眼吧；哎，今天的光真不错，自个拍吧；咦，手上有个死皮，不行我得扣扣。真正用在复习上的时间所剩无几，最后发个朋友圈“又是积极努力备考的一天”。“职场气氛组”们更是想要在老板面前表现的好点，每天都在加班忙工作，好像为公司付出了很多。

They have different meanings, but one common feature is that the "atmosphere group" is obsessed with the appearance of effort. The atmosphere group got up early every morning and went to the library. Then they came back late. It seemed like they had been studying all day. Arrive at the library in the morning, there is a novel on the desk, forget to see a few eyes; Ah, today's light is really good, take it by itself; Hey, there is a dead skin on hand, I can't QQ. I didn't really have much time left to review, so I finally sent a message on my circle of friends, "It's another day to prepare for the exam actively." The "workplace atmosphere" group wanted to look good in front of the boss. They worked overtime every day and seemed to contribute a lot to the company.

其实呢？早早到达公司，发现也没啥人，先追个剧吧；主管要求学个PS，没事不着急，以后慢慢学；策划内容其实都差不多，复制粘贴，也没啥事。

In fact? Arrive early to the company, found that there is no person, first catch up with a drama; Supervisor asked to learn a PS, nothing is not anxious, later slowly learn; Planned content is actually the same, copy and paste, also no matter.

看似工作一整天其实没干啥实事，最后发个朋友圈“又在加班熬工作，这次升职有我吗？”

Seemingly working all day in fact did not do anything practical, finally sent a circle of friends "again overtime work, this promotion is I involved?"

结果没考上研，没升上职，然后他们异口同声的说；“总会有人看到我的努力的！”

The result did not take an examination of grind, did not rise on the post, and then they say with one voice; "Someone will see my efforts!"

但是造成这个结果的原因，你自己不是很清楚吗？总是努力给人看，最后一定会露馅，你不平庸谁平庸。人生苦短，生命宝贵，不要总是甘于平庸却还说平庸可贵。愿你我能在最好的年华里，活出平凡却不平庸的自己。

But the reason for this result, you are not very clear? Always try to show people, eventually will be revealed, you are not mediocre who mediocre. Life is short and life is precious. Don't always settle for mediocrity but still say that mediocrity is valuable. I wish you and I can in the best years, live an ordinary but not mediocre yourself.

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