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开悟瑜伽士：为何相爱却彼此伤害？【张无极的魔法学院】

来源：爱乐趣网时间：2021-01-16 16:22

原标题：开悟瑜伽士：为何相爱却彼此伤害？【张无极的魔法学院】

下面谈话来自一个现代开悟瑜伽士萨古鲁的角度：

Questioner: Dear Sadhguru, I find it much easier to see the wonder in the natural world than in humanity. How do I see the same wonder in human beings that I see in the peacock dancing?

提问者：亲爱的萨古鲁，我感觉从自然界里发现美好的东西要远比从人那里容易。我能从孔雀跳舞中发现美好，如何才能从人身上也发现这样的美好呢？

Sadhguru: Well, it's a human being right? No, no, I'm thinking if a bird is asking a question. Well, human beings don't have such a wonderful plume like the peacock. We don't have. We can put it on, you know, but it's just put on, it's not like a peacock's plume.

Sadhguru（萨古鲁）：他应该是个人吧？不，不，我在想这个问题是不是只鸟问的。人类没有孔雀那样美丽的羽翎，我们是没有的，我们虽可以穿戴上，但仅仅是穿戴而已，不像孔雀的羽翎。

So, it's easy to see wonder in things with which you don't have to share anything. You know there's a whole culture growing in the world where people go about saying, "I love the entire humanity, but I can't stand the next human being who's sitting here." It's very easy to love God, for example, because he never comes and sits at dinner table with you. Maybe you may take his name. But if he sits at the dinner, then there'll be problem. Because he never comes, even what you offer you are very clear only you get to eat it. Yes, yes. If he starts eating, the offerings will Pfff...

那么，要从跟自己无关的东西中发现美好是很容易的。你知道，现在世界上有个很大的潮流，大家到处说：“我喜欢全人类，但我唯独受不了坐在我旁边的这个人。”比如，爱上帝是很容易的，因为他从来不会下来和你同坐在餐桌旁，你可能会谈论祂，但如果他跟你共进晚餐的话，就会有问题。因为他从来不会来，即使是你供奉给他的东西，你也很清楚只有你才会吃，是这样的，是的，如果他真吃的话，那你的供奉就……

I must tell you. This happened. This is a interfaith beggars' association. So, there are only three members. One Hindu beggar, one Christian beggar, one Islamic beggar. So they said... you know, they're very religious. But because of their economic condition, they have to be together, otherwise they would fight. So one day they met under a tree, and then the Hindu beggar wanted to show that he's really a devotee. He said, "See, every day whatever money and stuff, generally the money that comes to me, which comes in the form of coins and various small denominations. I write a large Om, Om, and then I throw all the money up. Whatever lands on the Om belongs to Shiva, rest belongs to me. I am a real devotee." Om is you know, big tail and this one, this one, and all that. The Muslim beggar said, "I also do something similar. But for us the sacredness of the moon is in the first day moon, which is a thin sliver. I draw the picture of a... you know the, first day moon. Then I throw the money, whatever lands on the moon, belongs to Allah. Rest belongs to me." Then they ask the christian beggar, what do you do. He said, "I'll take all the money and throw it up. Whatever is his, he will keep it, rest..."

我得给你们讲个故事，有这么件事，有一个多元信仰乞丐联协会，协会只有三名会员，一个印度教乞丐，一个基督教乞丐，以及一个伊斯兰教乞丐。你知道，他们都很虔诚，但由于经济状况，他们不得不在一起，要不然他们会互斗。有一天他们在一棵树下碰面了，然后这个印度教的乞丐想展示他真的是个奉爱者，他说：“你们看，每天不管我讨到多少财物，一般我讨到的钱都是硬币和小额票子，我会先画一个大大的Om符，然后再把所有的钱都抛起来，所有落到Om符上的钱都归湿婆，剩下的才归我，我是个货真价实的奉爱者。”Om符，你知道，有一个大尾巴，这里一笔，这里一笔，很多划。穆斯林乞丐说：“我也差不多，不过对于我们而言，新月最为神圣，它就像一片薄银。我会画一个新月，然后把钱都抛起来，所有落到新月上的都归阿拉，剩下的才归我。”然后他们问那个基督教乞丐，“你呢？”他说：“我会把所有的钱抓起来然后都扔上去，只要是他的他都会留下，至于剩下的……”

Like this. It's easy to love a wild bird, which is dancing which is beautiful, because it doesn't ask anything of you. It doesn't even like you actually. It doesn't think much of you, have you seen our peacock looks at you (Gestures). It doesn't think much of you. So there's nothing you have to offer. There's nothing you have to do you can just enjoy things long distance. This is why, you know, people are now, full of love affairs going on on the Facebook TikTok and whatever, Instagram and wherever because you don't have to meet them, you don't have to share anything with them. You don't have to wait outside the bathroom when they're using it. You don't have to stand in a queue behind them. Nothing. Instant everything. If you don't like it, you can turn it off and wipe out the account.

就像这样，爱一只又会跳舞又漂亮的野鸟很容易，因为它不会向你要任何东西。它甚至都不喜欢你，它也不怎么瞧得上你，你见过孔雀的眼神么？它不觉着你有什么了不起。所以你没必要提供什么，也不需要做什么，只需要远距离欣赏它就行。这就是为什么现在的人，在脸书、抖音、Instagram之类的上面爱来爱去，因为你们不需要见他们，不需要跟他们分享什么东西，也不需要在他们上厕所的时候在外面等，也不需要在他们后面排队，什么都不需要。一切都是即时的，如果你不喜欢了，可以关掉并清空账号。

So the peacock comes, dances you love it, it will go away. No problem. You don't have to house it. Do one thing. Keep the peacock in your bedroom for three days. It will shit all over the place. And in the night 'coooo', it'll do, very loud sound. People may not know this. Every day, they're sitting on the roof of the place where I am, and 'papoon' they'll start in the morning. So keep the peacock in your house for three days. Then let's see how much you will be.

那么孔雀过来，然后跳舞，你会喜欢，然后它会走，没问题，你没必要给它提供住处。你试试这个，把孔雀在你的卧室里养三天，它会拉得到处都是，到了晚上它会“咕咕咕”，而且声音非常大。大家可能不知道这点，每天它们都会在我住所的房顶上面，一大早就“叭嘣、叭嘣”地叫。所以先把孔雀在你房子里养三天，然后再看看你会怎么样。

So, human beings are a difficult species. That includes you. So, don't make this... see we are talking about not having distinctions of race, religion, caste, creed, gender... lot of talk is going on about this. I'm telling you, don't even draw lines about the species, why. I love a monkey but I can't love a human being. This means there's an evolutionary problem within you. I love the monkeys but I can't stand the human beings. What does it mean, you don't like the evolution. So, it looks fascinating the one monkey jumps, all over from branch to branch, fascinating. Just one day, keep your window open in Shivapadam. A few monkeys entered your room, you're finished. They will eat, they will tear, they will shit all over the place, they'll destroy everything that is there, and they're gone. Now you come and say, "Ah my dear monkeys, what a job they have done." No. It won't work like that.

那么，人类是很难相处的物种，那也包括你。所以，不要……你看，我们在讨论不要区分种族、宗教、种姓、信条、性别……大家在这些方面讨论很多。我要说的是，连物种的区分都不要有，为什么？我喜欢猴子，但不喜欢人，这说明你有进化问题。我喜欢猴子，但却受不了人，这说明什么？说明你不喜欢进化。那么，猴子跳来跳去很让人着迷，从这个树枝跳到那个树枝，很令人着迷。你在Shivapadam把窗户开一天试试，要是有几只猴子进了你的房间，你就完了。它们会吃光你的食物，撕坏你的东西，会拉得到处都是，它们会把那里的所有东西都破坏掉，然后一走了之。然后你进去说 “啊我可爱的猴儿，你们干得太漂亮了。”不会的，这是不可能的。

So, it's all right, at least you enjoying the birds, it's good. It's a... it's a kind of lobby(hobby?) called ornithologist, you enjoy the birds, study the birds or enjoy the birds - bird watching. But the same birds if they enter your room. It's different. The problem with human beings is, you encounter them everywhere. They're in your house, they're in your office, they're everywhere. They're not just dancing somewhere far away. If they were just dancing far away, you would love them also. The problem is, you have to work with them, you have to live with them, you have to manage them, every day. That's a problem.

那么，也还好，至少你能欣赏那些鸟，这很好。这是……这是鸟类专家的爱好，你喜欢鸟，研究鸟，观鸟，但同样的鸟，如果进到你的房间的话，情况就不一样了。人类的问题在于，你不管走到哪都会遇到他们。他们在你家里，他们在你的办公室里，他们无处不在。他们不只是远远地跳舞，如果他们只是远远地跳舞，你也会喜欢他们的。问题在于，你不得不跟他们一起工作，和他们一起住，你得管理他们，每天都是如此，问题在这里。

So, I want you to understand this. Nothing wrong in you appreciating and loving a peacock dancing, perfectly fine. You must love him even when he's not dancing. That's fine. See the frog is saying "Where is the snake?" When there are peacocks, they eat up the snakes. Every few days, I'm bringing snakes and leaving them in the garden but these peacocks eat them up in no time. You will like the peacocks. I also like them, but I would like some snakes also moving around but they all get eaten up in no time.

那么，我希望你明白这一点，你欣赏和喜欢孔雀跳舞没什么错，完全没问题。它不跳舞的时候你也应该喜欢它，那很好，但是……青蛙在说：“蛇去哪了？”孔雀会把蛇都吃掉，每隔几天我都会带些蛇来，把它们放到花园里，但这些孔雀立刻就把它们吃光了。你会喜欢孔雀的，我也喜欢它们，但我也希望能有些蛇四处活动，但它们立刻就会被吃掉。

So, it is easy to love when there is distance. See, many people right now in this virus times, what are they complaining about? Their loved ones, they're cooped up with them in the house. Big trouble. Domestic violence has increased, you know, hundred percent, some people are saying. In some countries, all kinds of troubles, everybody's ask… seeking advice, what to do, how to manage this family. These are the same people you were missing, because they were going to office every day. Why are you gone for so long... But now they are home and trouble.

所以，当有距离的时候，喜欢是很容易的。你看，现在在这个病毒时期，许多人抱怨的是什么？他们的爱人，他们跟爱人一起被禁锢在家里，这是个大麻烦。家庭暴力增长了一倍，有些人说一些国家出现了各种问题，每个人都在寻求建议，怎么办，怎么搞定这个家庭，这些人也曾是你朝思暮想的人，因为他们每天都去办公室，“你为什么要去那么久啊”，但现在他们在家里了，倒成了麻烦。

Distance is a wonderful thing. Death is a fantastic thing. See dead people are always loved by everybody, have you seen this? The moment they're dead, they just suddenly become worship worthy. Why did you not worship them when they were alive? How come the moment they're dead, they became worship worthy. Anywhere in the world, they'll put them up and do this, put flowers do whatever. Just because they're dead. When you're.. when they were alive, you were not willing to do it, when they're dead, you're doing it. That means what? No, I don't want to say it, you know. When they were alive, you were struggling with them. The moment they die, you worship them and you miss them and you love them. What does this mean? You're waiting probably, not a good thing, at all.

距离是个很美妙的东西，死亡是个很绝妙的东西，死去的人总是被所有人爱戴。你们发现这一点没有？一旦死了以后，他们会立刻变得值得崇拜。他们活着的时候，你们为什么不崇拜？怎么他们一死就变得值得崇拜了？无论世界上什么地方，他们会把遗像挂起来，然后这样，还会放上鲜花等等，就因为他们已经死了。当他们活着的时候，你们不愿意这么做，他们死了你们才做，这说明什么？不，我不想说出来，但你知道的。当他们活着的时候，你很难跟他们相处，一旦他们死了，你就又崇拜，又怀念，又爱戴的，这说明什么？说明你可能在等着吧，这不好，一点都不好。

So let's look at this carefully. Your problem is this, that you have a defined characteristic of your personality. You're looking for something which does not step on your persona. But human beings, you know, not every human being respects your boundaries, they step on it, inevitably. Some of them out of ignorance, some of them by intent like me, you know. Always by intent. Stepping on your boundaries. So the moment somebody steps on your boundaries, you feel that person is a problem. The peacock is outside your boundaries right now, it looks very beautiful. If it steps into your boundary, you will see him also as a big nuisance. Yes, you will. Whether it's a peacock or another bird or a monkey or a donkey or whatever, from far, everything is nice.

那么让我们来认真看看这个问题，你的问题是，你的个性中有一个固化的特征，你在寻找不会冒犯到你个性的东西。但人类，你是知道的，不是每个人都会尊重你的界限，他们会无可避免地踩到上面。有些人是由于无知，有些人，像我，则是有意的。我一直是有意的，不断地踩到你的边界上。所以一旦某个人踩到你的边界，你就会觉得那个人成了问题。那只孔雀现在在你的边界之外，故而看起来很美，如果它踏入了你的边界，你就会觉着它也成了大麻烦。是的，你会的，不管是只孔雀还是只别的什么鸟，或是只猴子、或是头驴，不管什么，从远处看什么都是好的。

So right now there is a distance between you and these creatures. So you're enjoying it, enjoy that, nothing wrong with that. But the important thing is, if you create a little distance between yourself and your own personality, you will see you will even enjoy yourself. And once you enjoy this person, you will see everybody is wonderful. Yes. You're not getting it. I'm saying, once you enjoy this person, everybody seems fantastic. You can enjoy everybody, because now you see people for who they are, not having some framework into which they must fit into, they don't fit into that.

那么现在因为你和这些生物之间有个距离，所以你才能欣赏这个，欣赏那个，这没什么不对的。但重要的是，如果你能在你自己和你的个性之间拉开一点距离，你就会发现你甚至能欣赏自己。一旦你能欣赏自己，你会发现每个人都是很棒的。是这样的，你还没明白。我说的是，一旦你能欣赏自己，就会发现每个人都很棒，你可以欣赏每个人。因为现在你看到他们原本的样子，而不是要他们必须符合你的条条框框。他们不会符合的。

This is why in India, we created characteristics of a god in such a way, it's impossible to accept that man if he was here. You know, Krishna, Rama, Shiva, you cannot accept these people. Ask the ladies will they accept a Rama, as their husband in their life, they will not. Ask them will they accept, Krishna, as their husband in their life, they won't, because it's too much trouble. But with six thousand years of distance how wonderful they look, how fantastic. And Shiva, impossible man! Okay? Just anything and everything that you can think of, he is. So, this was.. the character of a God was built like this so that, if you can be really looking at him for all that he is, and still absolutely accept him, and look at him in a worshipful way, you will.. if you accept Shiva, the way he is, you will have no issue with a single human being on the planet. So you must do that.

这就是为什么在印度，我们创造的神会有这样的性格，以至于他们要是真在这里的话，是没人能接受得了的。Krishna（奎师那）Rama（罗摩）、Shiva（湿婆）你接受不了这些人的。问问女士们，她们想不想接受Rama当她们的丈夫，她们不会想的。问问她们会不会接受Krishna当她们的丈夫，她们不会的，因为那太麻烦了。但有了六千年的距离之后，他们看起来是那么的好，那么的棒。还有Shiva，根本让人受不了的好吧！你能想到他是什么样子他就是什么样子，所以，神的性格故意被塑造成这个样子，以便，如果你能看到他的方方面面，却还能完全接受他，还是用崇拜的方式来看待他。如果你能原本地接受Shiva，那么地球上任何一个人对你而言都没问题，所以你必须要做到这一点。

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